More information about your forum, perhaps? Like a link, and if it is supposed to be private / invite only, it's purpose? QQ can theoretically do everything that SB can, except talking politics. And politics generally didn't make anything on SB - or SV for what matters - better.
Me as well. TO pretty much perma banned me so not like I could appeal to the staff.
Join my site and get people if you wanna see me more. I need people there in order for the thing to work in the long run.