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Questionable Questing

Subrosian Smithy
Subrosian Smithy
I'm writing... roleplay, I guess you could say, and I don't want to miss what's sexy about the thing itself.
Enigmatic
Enigmatic
The thrill of stealing away someone's significant other, the feeling of power of making someone who's already in a relationship fall for you, the fact that you're taking someone who's "off-limits".

Those are some of the things that make NTR a great fetish. IMO, at least.
Daniel K. English
Daniel K. English
This is an interesting food for thought. I can write something to answer this but it might take some time.
Valette-Serafina
Valette-Serafina
Violation of taboo. It's wrong, so it's hot. That's basically what sits behind most kinks of that general flavour.
Daniel K. English
Daniel K. English
Nevermind. I'll try to write it all out here.

I'd say, those fetishes all play on monogamous relationships: you only have sex with a partner you commit to when in a relationship. Love and sexual loyalty become one thing.
Daniel K. English
Daniel K. English
Of course, sexual attraction is not optimized for monogamy.

For a writer, that means there are a lot of tools in play. There's a betrayal in a relationship. There's either an unspoken hunger for something else, or a reconstruction of relationship structures. There's also the layering of people's relationships. And more.
Daniel K. English
Daniel K. English
In terms of the smut, I'm less sure.

There's the obvious sexual relationship the cheater is having with another person. It might be something akin to a fascination with "newness."
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