The sex favors the rough and crude, animalistic and passionately forceful. Tossing maidens and matriatchs onto bed, stalking them in the woods and pushing them up against a tree, but before that is a bartering of value. Bodies and hearts are sold like cattle and wolves, used and claimed and kept. There's romance in this but mixed with more raw greed and social strength
Now First Men the courting revolves around talents and placement in a home. For example, a favored son goes to seduce and claim his Green Woman mother. She asks of him his sword arm, his ability to hunt and provide food, a trade to give them money.