The problem with modern wuxia fans pertaining to 小龙女 is that they have a fixation on her virginity, which to be fair, I get it, but they only focus on the moment when she is paralyzed by Zhen Zhibin/Yin Zhiping (depending on the version), but they never think about her almost-marraige to Gongsun Zhi, Zhou Botong treating sex like a PVP game, her not killing Zhen Zhibin... she's had a lot of sex off-screen...