KaliYugaFan
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Therapy.I guess I keep having stupidly high expectations of myself, mostly because after all my years of study with a tiger mom increasing my stress all the way till the end of college and my family's attempts at "teaching me business" I have almost zero actual skills
Reading a bazillion books is completely and utterly meaningless as an accomplishment if you take nothing from them. That's literally just wasting time and tiring your eyes for no reason. You have to engage actively and deliberately with the media that you consume if you want to get anything out of it beyond just consumption for consumption's sake.So I want to compensate, even by at least having read thousands of books….i have actually started reading less since I tried making it a goal to read so much ironically
That's great! I love weightlifting. You should keep that up, and track your lifts every week so you can see how you've progressed in strength and endurance. You don't need to be a runner by any means, but some steady-state cardio will help you out a lot on your lifts. I would recommend doing just 15-20 minutes on a treadmill set to the highest incline. You don't need to run or even jog, just a decent walking pace on an incline will keep your heart rate high and get you some great cardio. Also, just as a useful little aside, it absolutely melts calories so it's great for weight loss as well.Mostly involving core exercises whilst rotating on other aspects, my mood and health have actually increased. But I sure AF can't try to be a runner or do fast walks like my friend tried getting me to do, I just mainly do weight lifting now.
Perhaps, it may be in your best interests to not create a first draft and instantly send it out to be critiqued. You may learn something about yourself and your writing habits by making a first draft, not touching it for a day, and then coming back to it with fresh eyes to make your own edits. After doing this a few times, at least until the point that you don't totally hate what you've jotted down, THEN you send it off to somebody to read and critique.I really wish I had a better way to get instant critique, I hired a tutor, even with my cash, still feels like not enough and not frequent enough. I want to do self critique better, entirely on my own, without depending on others too much because other people at times on things like online barely ever respond.